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Our sex life isn't going very well.

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Not Donnie.

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He always wants sex all the time, and
he's not demanding.

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I've never been able to, you know,
loosen up and

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enjoy it.

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Well, Autumn, you know that I'm not a
sex therapist.

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But that being said, I...

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Do you think I could help you? The first
thing that you need to understand is

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that this is not unusual at all.

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And the second is that there are
therapies out there that can help you

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loosen up, for lack of a better word.

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Would that be something you'd like to
try?

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Yes, I'm up for whatever you tell me to
do.

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If I...

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Don't do something.

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I could lose Donnie.

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Well, I think that we should keep these
meetings professional.

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So, why don't you come around my office?

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Let's say tomorrow at 2 p .m.? Thank you
so much. You're a

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lifesaver. I'll be there.

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Thank you so much for letting me come in
today.

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I'm so glad that we were able to make
time for this. Thank you for coming to

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office.

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Now listen, you know that I'm not a sex
therapist. We went over this.

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However, I did train in some sexual
therapy modalities while I was in

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I am kind of excited to be able to do
some exercises.

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Yeah. I want to go over the parameters
of these exercises really quickly before

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we get started.

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The first thing is, of course, if you're
uncomfortable at any point, just say

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stop. We stop everything.

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However,

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I hope that we can press through any
discomfort on this one because with this

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particular exercise, the whole goal is
about pushing past your discomfort with

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your own body.

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You can't be comfortable in your own
skin, with your own body, advocating for

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your own pleasure to yourself.

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How on earth are you going to do that in
the context of a relationship?

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Yeah, you're so right. And I'm up for
whatever you want to teach me and learn.

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really don't want to mess up my
relationship with Donnie.

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He means so much to me.

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So get comfy.

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Lay back.

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Big inhale.

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And on the exhale, close those eyes.

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I want you to imagine in your mind your
husband in

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the shower.

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He's naked.

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The water's running all over him.

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What's your favorite part on his body?

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His arms.

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He's running those big, strong arms all
over his body.

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He's got soap in one hand,

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his butt in bubbles cascading down his
hard abs,

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sliding and pulling around his cock.

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He finds himself getting harder.

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and the sour, needless stroke.

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He's touching himself, thinking about
you.

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His soft, curvy,

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beautiful girl.

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He finds his cut getting harder in his
hands.

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Grit.

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Thinking about your mouth.

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Hot. Warm.

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Wet.

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Your soft hands touching him all over.

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Running your fingers down his strong
hands.

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He's thinking about what he would do

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to you, the things he wants.

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He wants to run those big, strong arms
all over

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you, pulling you in behind him, wrap his

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bicep around your throat, grips you,
pulls you by the

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hips and starts rubbing that.

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between your butt all the way to your
pussy lips

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back and forth between your ass

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and the dripping soft cuss

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I know that's a harsh word but I want
you to be comfortable with all

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elements of sexuality including the
indelicate part

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I want you to think about him

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coming over to your ear.

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Pulling your hair back.

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Breathing in your ear.

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He has a little grip by the back of the
neck.

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One hand there.

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He's holding you and you go soft like a
little kitten.

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He can do whatever he wants to.

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And you love it.

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Why?

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Your pussy's starting to drip.

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All the red pap you want.

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He hasn't even put it in you.

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Moaning like a bitch in heat.

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You need it.

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Isn't that right?

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You need it.

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You're not cringing.

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You just need to get more stuff.

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You're running a big hard cock over your
pussy lips.

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And before he even slides in, you are
already kicking those hips back,

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thrusting into it, begging.

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You're empty.

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You might have filled up.

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You're aching, Rebecca.

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Aren't you?

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You're already thrusting back.

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You can feel that pleasant warmth
dripping down right here.

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That spot where he likes to slide his
cat between.

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That spot where he bites you when you
start to come closer.

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That part of you that

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bucks your hips back on the head without
even knowing.

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Your breath is starting to get soft.

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What are you thinking about someone's
happiness?

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You still want it, Lexi.

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All the things a woman needs.

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And then...

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He doesn't want to get carried away by
this at all.

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He's working too hard on his back.

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He's wanting to slowly slow it all down.

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When he slows it down, he's in pain.

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Thank you.

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You're begging.

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You're begging.

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Please, honey.

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Please, honey.

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Don't stop. Please, don't stop.

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Breathe.

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You're begging for things you didn't
even know you wanted.

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You're in the animal's cage.

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You're the only thing.

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You don't care if it's dirty or messy.

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You just want that pretty soft

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cut hair on your husband's side.

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He's going free in the land.

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He hasn't got his back.

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He's got

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his grip, but he hasn't.

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He hasn't got his back.

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He hasn't got his back.

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You can't help but lose yourself.

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You lose yourself.

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You lose yourself.

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Get you out of your head.

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You think too much.

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You fuck him and you're thinking about
your grocery list.

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You're on your tongue and you're like, I
don't know who's thinking about it, but

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you have to.

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I can't see anything.

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Okay,

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you're putting them all into it.

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Well, he does it.

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Does he drink the way you taste stuff?

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Does he have to inhale the way you smell

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before he puts his mouth on it?

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Okay.

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I'm excited.

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I told you.

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Oh.

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I'm so sorry.

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I don't know.

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I don't know.

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Thank you.

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It makes you good.

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Make sure you don't have to lift your
fingers.

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Amen.